Dr. Deshler's Recommended Books

Recommended Books
Why These Books Would be Helpful

After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful

by Janis A. Spring Ph.D.

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This is a very balanced treatment of a difficult situation. The book gives positive suggestions for both partners in how to rebuild after a violation of trust

Stepcoupling : Creating and Sustaining a Strong Marriage in Today's Blended Family

by Susan Wisdom

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If you are one of the millions of remarried Americans facing the challenge of blending two existing families into one cohesive whole, you are part of a stepcouple. Stepcoupling offers advice for stepcouples on how to do just that-all the while strengthening their blended family with a healthy marriage. The book provides tips and strategies on dealing with the issues remarried couples face, with a wealth of advice from real-life stepcouples.

"You Just Don't Understand - Women and Men in Conversation"

By Deborah Tannen

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Georgetown University linguistics professor Tannen ponders gender-based differences that, she claims, define and distinguish male and female communication. There are many examples of real conversation that demonstrate the different way in which men and woman communicate.

"The Feeling Good Handbook"

By David D. Burns

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Through a workbook the author provides tools to help readers deal with depression and low self-esteem. This is a cognitive approach which might appeal to those who are somewhat rational or intellectual.

"Driven to Distraction : Recognizing and Coping with Attention Deficit Disorder from Childhood through Adulthood"

By Edward Hallowell

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This book dispels a variety of myths about attention deficit disorder (ADD). Both authors have ADD themselves, and both are successful medical professionals. Book offers many suggestions for coping with ADD.

"Mans Search for Meaning"

By Victor E. Frankl

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A very moving and painfully personal account of finding meaning under the leakest of conditions.

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